What Abraham Lincoln Taught Us About Positive Thinking

January 17, 2013 — 13 Comments

Abraham Lincoln suffered terrible losses.  Yet, he has great lessons to teach on Positive Thinking.

Abraham Lincoln on Positive Thinking

Positive Thinking is Not All Puppies and Roses

Abraham Lincoln’s style of positive thought was different than yours and mine.

Positive thought is associated with an optimistic attitude.  Yet, Lincoln was a depressive.

I believe that a person can be depressed, and still think positively.

There is no doubt that Freedom was a positive thought.  Yet I believe emancipation heightened Lincoln’s depression,  Not for the good to come, but the blood to be shed.

Yet, some positive thoughts are worth the pain.

Focused Thought Produces Results

Do you think of a bullheaded focused person as a positive thinker?

Abraham Lincoln was relentless in his focus.  When he set his mind to a task at hand, there was no persuading him to change his mind.

“Some single mind must be master, else there will be no agreement in anything.”

“Hold on with a bulldog grip, and chew and choke as much as possible.”

Positive Thinkers Have a Sense of Humor

“If I were two-faced, would I be wearing this one?”

Forgiveness Is Key to Positive Thinking

Abraham Lincoln had many reasons to be spiteful:

  • The Father, lost both of his sons.
  • The President, brought our country into Civil War.
  • The Man, was killed in front of his wife.

Forgiveness does not mean no pain.  You can hurt, and forgive.

“I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends.”

An Eternal Perspective Brings Hope

I have faced the fear of death.  Twice.

Once on a plane the depressurized in flight.

Another, when the hospital woke my wife in the middle of the night.  “Mrs. Liles.  We had to resuscitate Willa.  She stopped breathing.”

Life comes to an end.  The HOPE of immortality keeps us doing the right things.

“Surely God would not have created such a being as man, with an ability to grasp the infinite, to exist only for a day! No, no, man was made for immortality.”

Question:  Is positive thinking only roses and puppies?  Can a depressed person be a positive thinker?

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  • lulu

    I do believe a depressive person can be positive – if only to be positive that things can get worse!!! ha ha Seriously – it is often in the face of such evil, oppression, sorrow and illness can big decisions for big change be made. Positive is more than the opposite of negative – it is a force. Near death experiences can lead to life changing experiences. Funerals can give you a taste for life. I think those that feel being positive is all roses and puppies are in for a hard fall. Puppies grow and roses die. One often doubts the sincerity of those who are always sickening cheerful. Indeed – we, as Christians, should be the most contented on earth – for we have the most positive gift of all – eternal life with Christ. But even in that – death was involved.

    • http://www.toddliles.com/ Todd Liles

      Great thoughts Lulu!

  • http://CorporateCultureRevolution.com/ Bob Winchester

    Great post Todd!

    Positive people can be depressed. Anyone can find themselves in a depressive situation. Sometimes its even a longterm struggle.

    The tough part is what you do with those feelings. Do you lose faith and hope or do you double down on a higher power?

    We all face this challenge at some point or another.

    If you aren’t facing it now, then pray for someone who is.

    • http://www.toddliles.com/ Todd Liles

      Bob. I agree with you. We can all be depressed. When you are not, pray for others. Great addition.

  • http://www.facebook.com/myladydonna Donna Jackson

    Son,
    I believe a depressed person can be positive, but only thru the power of prayer thru God that lifts us out of that state of being. I am very bull-headed or strong headed, but a depressed state can have a very strong hold if one is not careful. It can beset your goals, or your whole being. My thoughts on this is a person has to be strongly bull-headed, in order to face this obstacle. A depressive state, without control can draw you deeper within your-self, withdraw one from their focus on life, want to make give up on yourself and others. When i have found my-self in a state of depressed thoughts, I listen to music, read my Bible and pray, because I cannot stay focused on positive thoughts. My thoughts basically become all negative and I know that is the spirit of satan interacting in my life. So I approach the Great Throne and God helps me to re-new and enhance my positive side to produce and conclude what I started.Puppies, also sense the depressed state when gotten on to, roses sense nothing but a need for water and both are like humans in the sense we all die( humans spiritaul death_) But, to conclude I don’t think there is a person alive that can say they have never been depressed.
    your greatest fan
    mom 01-18-2013

    • http://www.toddliles.com/ Todd Liles

      Mom, I think we all go through some tough times. The key is to keep going.

  • http://www.mattmcwilliams.com/ Matt McWilliams

    What’s wrong with roses and puppies?

    But no…positive thinking is the mindset that I might go through hell to get to heaven. And I might go through problems to get to my goal.

    But there is always the end which is positive.

    • http://www.toddliles.com/ Todd Liles

      Matt – I like puppies!

      • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

        me too:)

  • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

    Positive thinking does not prevent us from problems or challenges it just allows us to move through them better. Great thoughts Todd.

  • http://www.mondayisgood.com/ Tom Dixon

    I think what it says is we never know what is in a person’s heart – what we perceive as depressive thoughts and attitudes may be a false signal of something positive. However, I have found in most cases those who are depressive act it – and those who are positive act it.

  • http://www.leadtoimpact.com/ Bernard Haynes

    Good post. Positive thinking does not deflect negative things from happening nor does it automatic bring what you want by just thinking about it. When negative things happen a positive mindset helps you get through it. You can think positive about what you want in your life, but you have to take consistent action to make it happen. I discovered your blog from my man Dan Black.

    • http://www.toddliles.com/ Todd Liles

      Bernard – Thanks for adding value with your comments. You are completely correct. It is about the action to move forward. It is not the intention, it is the work. Thanks again, and let our buddy Dan know I said “hi”